When I can give you one advice, I would probably say: just be true to yourself.
But what does that actually mean? What does it tell us?
Not too much, because being true to ourselves quickly becomes difficult, hard, weird.
It is not always easy. It often is just fucking damn hard.
There are people around us wanting something from us.
There are things that consume our energy.
There are information pieces that tear us apart.
There are news that push us away.
There is always something that finds a way to our soul.
And there it stays waiting for us to make a move.
But what if we do not want?
What if it feels wrong and weird and not us anymore?
Do we simply say “Bye, bye”,
or do we wave a hand and mourn to death?
Life is not easy,
and people standing and waiting for us neither.
But whenever we do stuff for them,
and ignore ourself,
then day by day,
and moment by moment,
we find ourselves somewhere else.
Not at a place where we wanted to be,
but a place conducted for us by someone else.
Be careful that this is not you,
but you are who you are.
And you can wave that hand and say ‘bye bye’,
and not mourn to death of loss occured,
but embrace the new,
and let it shine.
And find a new you,
that says aloud:
“You are beautiful!”
“Just as you are!”